They are, Mary Ann, including you.
Thank you, Bonnie. Be different if we had been able to afford a burial plot where Crystal's kids could go to remember. (I have her ashes at my house until my sister or one of the kids decides to take them.) Thought it would be nice for them to have it. And I get a pretty garden bed out of it, so everyone benefits.
Tracy had a traditional funeral and his kids do have that option, but it is not convenient traveling distance for my sister and his part was more for her than for his children.