Carol, gardening can be very frustrating at times, no matter how long you've been at it. (At least once a year something gives me a reason to say "I'm glad I'm not trying to make a living doing this," and I've been gardening for about 40 years now. There are a lot of things to learn, from timing, to what varieties to best in your area, to how much (or little) to water, etc etc etc. And then Mother Nature will still throw some kind of monkey wrench at you.
I'm far removed from your zone, but I can't help but think that things like lettuce, radishes and arugula would be doing better outside the GH in your area at this time of year. They are very cold tolerant crops, even if you have a light frost they will be fine; and if the temps are going lower than that, just a covering of Reemay (or a similar "floating row cover" material) should suffice to protect them. Obviously, though, I'm just guessing here -- lots of people on ATP from the south, I hope someone will chime in that has more definitive info.
Just don't give up too quickly -- you'll be glad you didn't !