Oh Arlyn...you lost more than I started with!!!
Sorry to see all that bad news, but thanks for posting because in a way, it makes me feel a little better (as a newbie) to know that it happens to experienced growers too (and not in a "misery loves company" sort of way.) I checked my lists, and don't have anything you've lost, so no help there.
Take heart...the FEdEx man will come through for you!!!