Susan, try to calm down, and give this a little time. You need to think it over calmly. I have never heard of senior abuse. This may be abusive and you are seniors, at least Bob is for sure. As a legal term, no. I think you are are thinking of Elder Abuse and that's not what this is. As Ann said, I don't think reporting this will do any good for you, but I would document it and keep the record of their visit. HUGS