ShadyGreenThumb said:My first question was how did YOU know he was actually the homeowner?
That occurred to me, as well... really, anyone could have pulled in and said they owned the place, right? (or, maybe I missed it... did you actually recognize him as being the owner?)
and I totally agree with Ken, that the realtor should be informed about what happened.
Frillylily, you didn't do anything wrong -- I think you handled the whole situation amazingly well; but I think it's going to continue to eat at you unless you get some kind of "closure" about what's really going on.
