My experience with avocados is that eventually the fruit falls on its own - and the deer love them.
Here is a list of commonly grown avocados and when they ripen:
https://www.fourwindsgrowers.c...
I wouldn't pick the fruit from the tree just yet; it could be a late bloomer. It would be a shame to lose all that fruit because of impatience. As this is your first year at your new home, you should watch and take note. Next year you will know what to expect.
Daisy
