hi Weedy,
you're not the only one who gets confused at times !
I work with computers full-time and even I have things 'get lost'...
especially photo's!
I've had a digital camera for 3 years now and I still don't know how to activate the flash...
Colors never show up the way they should and most times the background is more in focus than the flower that I want to photograph
I've found that enjoying my DL's and the flowers is more important than sharing them on the internet or reacting to emails.
I'm sorry your SIL doesn't understand that.. perhaps you can send her some Daylilies so she can experience for herself the peace it gives to grow and take care of something so beautiful?
Don't let the frustration of computers take away the joy your garden gives you!
Life is too short to do things you don't like
Mayo