Well it seems i just have some normal low leaf die back. The aphids were real but do not seem to be a problem now that i have rinsed most away and the affected plants are no worse at all. I think i was jumping to some wrong conclusions. Even the farm where i help out is having some die back.
Weather has been strange with very wet early half of May and now no rain for over 2 weeks and temps in the eighties. Rain possible next 2 days and cooler temps in the 70s.
So now i have been watering and hoping for some rain when just 3 weeks ago wondering if it was going to stop. What can i say its northern Indiana, shorts one day and long jeans the next.