Thanks Becky.
Daniel,
Take your fresh pollen and just remove the anther stems leaving only the part with pollen. Put it in a matchbox. The small ones that can be bought in an 8 pack for a buck. Ship it the same day to make sure it arrives in 3 days. The one receiving it can either use it right away or put it in the freezer. The pollen will keep for a few years frozen.
Someone may have a better suggestion but from what I have learned hybridizing, I think you will have as good of pollen as your daylily produced. All pollen is not equal.
Terry