So sad, Lisa. This was a terrible year for botrytis for me too. I'll be disbudding many of them after tomorrow (visitors coming) to try to help the bulbs. We had a very nasty spring for rain.
I remember Judith saying that the purplish leaves (your last photo) can be caused by too much water. In our case, that would be rain and more rain. Well, I guess that can affect the bulbs with rot.