I think most of us agree, we'll never give up on gardening in general, it's just certain plants that we'll give up, after finding they are not worth the effort. But it's fun to have tried them. I tried a plum tree, this year I have fruit, but I'm going to try real hard to give it up. That plus a peach- not the kind of gardening I enjoy, not good yield for the space or work. Blueberries grow very well here, and are much more user friendly to the backyard gardener in my area.