I agree, many folks have their own method that works for them. This is my method:
When hybridizing, I use colored paperclips to mark blooms when crossing. I keep a paper list of what is crossed with what according to paperclip color. Pod parent is obvious, but I have to check the paperclip to verify pollen parent. I write the crosses as "pod parent X pollen parent"
As far as seed collecting, I wait until the pods turn brown and then open the pods all the way and remove the seeds, mark a paper envelope to place the seeds in to allow the seeds to dry for a few days to a week, then bag them in small ziploc baggies, labeled with parent's names, and let chill in the refrigerator (crisper drawer) for 4-6 weeks (or longer in many cases).
I have mentioned this in previous threads, this is the method I use to germinate seeds:
http://garden.org/ideas/view/b...
After they get big enough to plant outside in the ground (typically a raised bed), then I do so when the weather is cooler (early Spring or Fall). But sometimes I do plant in summer. Not always a good idea, but sometimes you have to do what you have to do considering time constraints.
My seedlings often bloom after a year here in Florida, but some can take 2 years to produce their very first bloom.
That's my method. I know many members have a different method that I hope they will share. This would be a good thread to refer new members to (or gardeners new to daylilies) in the future!
And my method for labeling plants:
http://garden.org/ideas/view/b...