Marti you got your hands full. Is the girlfriends mom able and willing to take care of the baby while both mom and dad work? That way, they can get their own place while the baby cared for by a family member. That is how many young folks do it as well as scrape the $$ together from both working to pay for childcare.
Pam... I get you, but you can remember them for tomorrow!
Wow, this new update for the ipad is throwing all sorts of words at me to choose from.. I should USE it because I am always having to go back and edit spelling.