luvsgrtdanes said:I'm sad that no matter how much I reached out and did for my oldest GD it just wasn't enough...how much is one person supposed to do
Ronnie ... I have been thinking about this all night and I don't know how to tell you what is in my heart. I know you are hurting and will continue to hurt for a long, long time and I am deeply sorry for that pain in your life.
No one can save another from the consequences of poor choices in their lives even when they know those consequences are horrid. However, you have given your GD one of the most magnificent and priceless treasures one person can ever give to another person. Whether or not she accepts or recognizes the value of that gift, it has been and is a part of the fabric of her life and was, and is, uniquely yours to give. You have given her the gift of your unconditional love. So many people in the world never have that in their lives. It's there. It's real and it is of great value.
I pray that you feel God's presence as you walk this part of your life's journey loving your troubled GD and knowing you are not alone with your pain.