I don't know what is the proper etiquette for this. Most vendors send bonus to the buyers. Do sellers want to know what the buyers want as bonus or do they find a wishlist offensive? Just would like to get feedback from both sellers and buyers of daylilies whether the sellers would like to know the buyers' wishlist or they prefer to give whatever they want. I know bonus is a gift not a requirement and as a buyer I really appreciate all the bonus, whatever they are. Just wondering what you all do in this situation.