I'm trying again to delete and re-add the DL's that don't show I own them. It seems to be working now when I "trash" it and re-add it.
I still don't know why it is happening. I believe it is ALL the ones that I added to a separate "category" previously. (I think I did that just before the new site going live.) Possibly I didn't check the "have" box when I added them to the category I titled "daylilies". I don't remember. Anyway, I'm going to work on this and see if they all get fixed and working right for me. May take a while because I'll have to copy/paste any notes I have in there.