Your papaya tree is definitely a hermaphrodite. Here's a photo of my hermaphrodite tree:
Smallish flowers grow in clusters on the stem where the leaf is attached.
Here's a female papaya tree:
Only one or two large flowers grow from the leaf axils.
Here's a male papaya tree:
The small tubular-like flowers grow in clusters on long panicles extending from the stem.
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