Don't think it could be Joe Pye, though I've not grown Joe Pye and there may be some that would look like this. Leaves are not opposing, stem and leaves are very slightly sticky, velvety to the touch, gray-green and have a pungent scent.
I could be wrong...
and.....
"maybe I should have kept my mouth shut....."
The Urge for Seeds is Strong in This One.....