how do you guys cross flowers? remove anthars from one flower to collect pollen and then remove the anthars from another plants flower and pollinate the pistil with the pollen from the other? or do you just graft and hope the seeds take traits of both parent plants to create a new pheno? im dumb to most flower knowledge, only started getting into them more this year, in regards to pollinators and for attracting soldier bugs like ladybugs, who will patrol my pepper plants for aphids lol