I was not mad at all, but I know sometimes I can write in a way that sounds "sharp" and I don't mean it that way at all! When I reread what I wrote, I thought maybe it sounded rather "know-it-all" and that was not my intention.
I have to laugh at this. This past summer I bought a sun tea jar at a local flea market and started making sun tea. I had my way of doing it, and it usually resulted in pretty good tea. My husband, however, kept saying "When my parents used to make it they did this....or they did that....."
I finally looked at him and said "Of course there is only one way to make sun tea, and it was your parent's way." He never said a word to me after that.
If you are successful, and it works for you-- it's the right way!