Aww, send her your 20 packs. They don't HAVE to be 20 different varieties either. These are just guidelines to help newbie seed swappers. I'd be tickled pink for her to join and I'm thrilled your still with us. :)
Don't feel bad about your listings. We all thought Dnd's was really going to be it for the season, but Val and I could not stand it, lol. We all love swapping so why stop now?