Stephanie!
Sounds like you may have more of Tom's iris than anyone on this forum, which is a great thing in my book! I have a few..
I ordered Messy Jessi last year but it did not survive. I think the only place I have found it is at Blue J Iris.
My Blush Be Gone is almost ready to bloom too. Can't wait. You have been to his gardens I am guessing? Lucky you. Not sure if I have any you are looking for but shoot me a tree mail with your wants and what you have for trade.