@Marilyn,
Quite the orders of Salvia you have placed this year. I have grown a few of them. I ordered Wood's Pink last year and they did great. All of them I had in ground returned. Will see how all my Grace Pink do as well. I think 2 of 3 have returned as well.
I avoid ordering from HCG for the same reasons/problems that you had. They have some unique plants but when you order them they always send you a common variety as a replacement. So I just order from other places and do without the Agastaches.
I ordered from Almost Eden and FBTS this year. Black and Bloom from Almost Eden and Bicolor Mexican Sage love that fuzzy white and purple contrast.
I ordered Envy, Dombeyi (Big Scarlet Sage or something like that) the huge red blooming one hopefully we will see if I can keep it cool enough and in the right growing conditions. I ordered S gesenerifloia Tequilla a couple of them hopefully I can figure them out as well first time growing them, a couple of Amistad (didn't grow them last year and missed them) and a couple of others I can't remember at the moment. I think 11 or 12 from FBTS. I don't think any of my Blue Ensign or Elk Argentine Sky will return :(.
