I was meaning to add to this thread, and forgot about it. ...gettin' old. I'm sorry you had the flu, Susie!
I started working on my "balance" around 2015. Here's where I was at last year:
EE 12
E 15
EM 33
M 66
ML 36
L 16
VL 17
I do not count the kind of daylilies that are shorter border daylilies that bloom in June or July, and then again in August or September. Like different Stellas or Returns. I've collected plenty of them, too, but I'm trying to balance the ones that just bloom once a year to see if I can get each of my daylily groups to bloom at least 80 days.
I'm such a geek.