Sorry about that Richard. I'm trying to multitasks, so many multiple thing & it seems so overwhelming, as my bank statement had never arrived & glanced up & thought that was Valerie's post, above mine. That's how tired I am.
I have to get things done, prior to even going to the Dentist , tomorrow, also.. Now, that I'm worn out, everybody else, will be "wide awake" if I even try to get some rest !
I'm really very sorry for all your loss.. I believe, that some things happen, just as they do & we have no control over them.
I had a an older friend & I'd often ask, (he managed a yachting marina , store, gas pumps & boat storage.., plus answered the phone & a private office..) "Why does these things always seem to only just happen to me ? He answered, "You've just passed , the "test" & it took me awhile, but eventually, it 'dawned on me" & I came to eventually understand, just what it meant.
I'm sure there are signs, you've noticed & it's just to let you know & can be rather reassuring, when those things do tend to happen....& now, I suddenly don't feel so rushed, any more !
