daylilly99 said:As a sometime seller on the Lily Auction and from my catalog, I will almost always try to give an OPTIONAL bonus. (I do not promise one). I try to take into consideration what the person has bought when I choose bonus fan(s) and or plants. I have given 100% bonus of my new or recent intros with purchase of one of my new intros because I really appreciate people wanting to buy one of them. I try to be generous with the percentage value of bonus plants vs. money spent on purchases.
That being said, I also have to take into consideration what it is that I have to spare from my backyard garden and I do not have rows and rows of stock plants lined out so it's difficult to let people make a wish list but I do appreciate suggestions of the type of things they might hope to receive. Many people are very gracious and say something to the effect that if you do give a bonus, I would like this type of plant. A few people even say please don't sent a bonus as I don't have room.
I imagine people are buying my daylilies because they want to grow those daylilies, not because they think I will send the perfect bonus plants (though one always hopes, of course).
You can't please all the people all the time, but I think a lot of sellers try to do their best. IT'S A GIFT!
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