You are a good friend to be rambling on to me, I feel honored Jim. You can ramble anytime. Bill H gave me this good sized Brassia which I suspect he couldn't bloom himself and just wanted it to go somewhere. I will bring it to someone else eventually if it never blooms.
My thoughts are with you and your mom today, Jim. I know when I go, I want to be alert and know what's happening and do it "my way" as much as possible. I'd like to know more about her but please tell us when you are ready to think about it. She sounded like a great mom and friend to you as well. How lucky you both have been. My son and I are just turning a corner on our relationship so it means a lot to hear your son-perspective. Peace.