Sorry, I didn't mean to imply that the neighbor was the original source of the info, or trying to be anything but helpful and supportive. I was speaking under an assumption that the neighbor was repeating something they had read, but that may not have been clear from what I said. I've heard that kind of thing asked about before, and encountered sources of info that give similar advice, and have always thought some of these advices could have originated as someone else's possibly sour grapes. No direct connection from 2nd-hand info of unknown origin to the neighbor was intended.