Cindi,
One of the reasons I engage in this forum is because I doing so reassures me that there is intelligent life in Kansas.
Toni,
I just have to remember that when faith in that fails completely, there's still donuts. Do you still have any of those donut tree seed packets left? I don't actually live in California, but I've always thought I'd like to. Maybe I could plant them, watch them grow, and harvest something that I wish was a donut.