Hi Toedtoes,
Absolutely, your concerns about the miscanthus sinensis make sense. Consider alternatives like Muhlenbergia rigens or Panicum virgatum.
Salvias and Agastaches are fantastic for color and attracting pollinators. Compact veggies, coneflowers, and black-eyed Susans could make your garden even more vibrant and diverse.
Your plan to experiment with different layouts is a great approach. Remember, gardening is a process, so take your time.
I will be adding a specific blog on plants in the near future
And I will share it then!
Feel free to reach out with any more questions. Happy gardening!