Oh -- vastly different dispositions, Polly. I deal with quite a variety since we always have at least a half-dozen barn cats who enter our lives randomly and leave when they make mistakes -- autos and coyotes, mostly. Just to give you an example -- Criss (the kitty I posted pictures of) showed up at our barn the same time as a black tuxedo cat, about six months ago. Both were very skittish and ran away whenever they caught sight of us. At this point in time, we have befriended Criss, who loves to be petted and cuddled and is almost ready to be picked up and held. Tux tolerates us being in the barn at the same time as him, as long as we're on the main floor and he's in the loft. Mostly he prefers that we're nowhere around. Totally feral -- and will likely never anything but.
Does your cat have the color orange on her forehead, or the shape of an orange?
So much for no more cat-talk, eh?