Thanks for your thoughts and support, but it was only 12.45 and I think I can survive without it. And yes, it was on our Daylily forum. She had a couple lists of plants she was wanting, and yes, there was tracking to where it was delivered 3-28 to Las Vegas...... I was just venting.
I also want to clarify that this incident has no bearing with contact I have had with some daylily "friends" with whom I will often trade. If it is seeds, plants or pollen, I am a daylily nutcase myself, and I am eager to further someone's addiction if I can, but she was a stranger, and that just caused some hard feelings. Now watch, she will contact me later saying she had been hit by a bus and I will feel badly for airing it.
