Charlene, I'll pray for John...and for you, also...since I know all two well that with a married couple, when one of you goes through something hard, the other one goes through it also. I came SO close to losing my DH about 8 years ago.
Sandy, I think I have them also...and they're stil around here...mainly, they like the Carolina Jessamine. Such a harmless bee...and must be a good pollinator also. My plum tree and peach tree are blooming also, so bees are going to those also.