When last we visited this thread, Autumn Red was the best bet for what my unknown DL is... per the database, AR is dormant, and I checked this morning. My unknown is most definitely a dormant daylily.
So it's just the scape size that leaves me not 100% sure of her name. We'll see how her scapes do this year.
Regardless of whether I ever learn her real name, she's one of my faves, and that's really all that matters, isn't it?