My given name is Deb, and I am not at all offended by bonehead, bh, or just plain bone. I embrace my boneheadedness which surfaces at least once a day, often in unexpected places! FYI, this was our family's very first user name when we got dial-up internet connection years and years ago. We thought it was a password we could all remember, only to find out it was the actual screen name. I've kept it on as my moniker through the years.