Arif, I'm not sure what you mean by 'lonely hearts club'.
Perhaps this is close: Most people are busy with family during the winter weeks between Thanksgiving and New Years Day and things are relatively quiet on a gardening site. But there are some of us whose time is spent more in solitude and you might find us here more frequently than others who have larger families. When that happens, it's always good to have something new to read.
On the other hand, I may have misunderstood you completely.
Happy New Year!