I know, you are right and I do care but I'm quite stressed by all the things that are needing doing and that it seems only I can do. I won't be carrying boxes or anything, I will hire someone to do that but I have to make the decisions. I've committed to total rest once I get back from the coast, probably thursday. I intend to take to my couch with a bunch of unread novels and keep my leg up and resting.