Please accept my condolences about your MIL. I really do understand about the RU, life happens. I've had times because of DH's illnesses in the past when all I could focus on was the bare essentials of living. I'm finally off of DG entirely, but will still go to San Marcos...if anyone makes last-minute requests of me on the forum...well, I'm sure they'll understand when they see me there. Don't know if I'll be going to any future RU's...could come as someone's guest, but I'm iffy on that. I think the RU's have seen attendance fall for a number of reasons. And with some cancelling DG memberships, could get even worse. We'll just wait and see.