Carolyn I was kidding. I know you were trying to help. When you posted shade and I noticed you are PA too I chuckled. These plants are going to drive me crazy. If they had not gone down in price I would not buy another one of them.
I depend more on foliage in my gardens than flowers and I thought these were going to be a good perennial alternative. They are turning out to be a big expensive experiment and I do not like the costly experiment. My budget is 10.00 a year for annuals. My money goes to building a garden.
So please do not think I really thought you were trying to confuse me. It is this darn plant that I like so much that is confusing me.