I was shocked and dismayed to realize that the garden websites where I spend so much time socializing are, indeed, "social media". I used to think that I didn't "do" social media.
Sort of like "I don't watch reality TV". My SO delights in pointing out that some things I do watch ARE reality TV.
And that the Kelly Armstrong detective/occult novels are actually romance novels!
Gack! My self-image may not survive contact with reality.