Thank you very much Lyn and skiekitty..(i don't remember if your name is Toni, sorry) i am very comfortable asking questions here because everybody is so kind and patient in explaining things to me..
All i have to do is reread until i am sure i didn't miss anything.. Anyway, i think tomorrow will be a great day for me because my mom inlaw is coming over with some plants and i know her for just touching something and it will bloom or bear fruits and vegetables.. This is the reason why i thought planting was just dig a hole, plant and water..
So i will have her do a one on one, actual tutorial with me.. Again, thanks everyone!! you guys are awesome!!