Agreed! I have been in on some of those fights, and it's really a tempest in a tea cup (now that I'm away from them I can say that, lol....) But I'm not proud of getting in to them - it's just really not worth it.
Regardless, Rhamel, we hope you will be comfortable here. You appear to be very knowledgeable, and that's always great to have around!
I keep both variegated plants - and an extra. Because we have no grass here, the cats need something non-toxic to chew on, lol....