Name: Anne Summerville, SC (Zone 8a) Only dead fish go with the flow!
I didn't know that the males mostly raised the babies! I find nests pretty much everywhere too .. I also have a hedge rose that Cardinals and Mocking Birds nest in every year. My biggest gripe about them making nests in the plant pots is that they dig holes and throw the dirt everywhere. I'm so glad I finally found a way to keep them out of the main greenhouse.
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