@Samigal So sorry to hear about your husband's passing. As Lin has said, being a caretaker takes more energy that anyone can imagine. She has given some very good suggestions. Hope to see you posting in the spring about your garden plans.
Great finds y'all!
Any day you wake up on the sunny side of the grass is a good day.
"The moving hand writes and having writ moves on. Neither all thy piety nor all thy wit can lure it back to cancel half a line nor all thy tears wash out a word of it." The Rubiyat by Omar Khayyam