Cat, I know there is nothing wrong with the forum....sorry if you misunderstood. I meant...where is everyone? You gave a very complete reason for your absence and I can appreciate that. I have been there and done that and it is not easy. My hat is off to you. I think you do a remarkable job considering all you have on your plate.
If I am not mistaken in the past, and I could be wrong, but when we were discussing off topic items too much, we were ask to take them to the Sandbox because there are a lot of people who come here to talk plants and problems not listen to personal problems or health issues. Sometimes it is acceptable but not for too long. I have no problem with personal issues being mentioned but I don't particularly like to dwell on them. Just my opinion. Plants are my pleasure and I relax here on the forum talking about them.
I did not mean to start an argument or stir up any ill feelings, I just wondered where everyone was. I will go back to my box and wait for someone to post. Have a great day and relax....things do get better. Think happy thoughts.