I'm so glad y'all are on ATP and are discussing these things on this thread. I have no intention of doing any hybridizing myself -- but it sure is exciting reading about your crosses and what you hope will develop!!
Paul -- I'm so sorry that you've been dealing with problems. Assume that they're in addition to the loss of your wife -- and I'm hoping they're not serious health issues. We'll be right here anytime that you feel like participating -- and you've got a whole team of people wishing the very best for you.