Elaine: i didnt realize that. All my pictures are there, with the names: Flickr.com/dals09
Sorry for that !!
They are no secret about dionaea. They need cool day and night(24/17C), full sun, a airy and drained soil mix and crystal clear water, no tap water. The relative humidity is not a major point with dionaeas, i grow mine in 40%.
So here the main lines to make your lil guy happy for years:
-Distilled (0ppm) water only
-Soil always moist, not wet. Never let it dryout.
-Airy acid soil mix(example 33/33/33 peat moss/perlite/oak chunks). (No nutrients, these plants grow in very poor and acid soil, thats why they are carnivorous).
-Full sun or strong T5 tubes.
-No feeding is needed, but it can help. (Insects only, no meat).
Hope this help ! :)
Francois