I just started on my own mite attack about a week. A friend I trade with accidentally sent them to me (lol, remembering the 'typhoid mary' line further up) Anyway, into round 2 of treatment. The soap got most leaves, and I sacrificed 3 beneficial spiders that I couldn't move. I want to nip this in the bud, before they think they'll be moving to other plants. Today all are looking good again, but will re-do in another few days. I've also been told that the Neem works very well. What would be advantage (or not) of using Neem over insectididial soap? Or the Bayer 3 in 1 you mention?