Yup -- I agree. I have posted pictures of an Iris and it turned out to not be the Iris, or was questionable -- and have asked for the photos to be removed. What fueled speculation in this matter was that private handling became public without an explanation. Cabin-fevered minds quickly become intrigued. Curiousity -- simple as that. Don't even know who the person is, so it's still private!
Like Celia said -- no worries.