Thanks, That's the thing when I've been reading about them it's been saying that if the leaves are wrinkled then it could be a sign of under watering....so that's why I'm struggling with it I Guess.
I think I'll nip to the garden center tomorrow and look for some better potting medium and get it re-potted :)
God some of the photo's that are in that link of them are amazing, no way does mine even come any where near any of them,... hopefully I'll be able to save it